
Once you actually get your partner interested in marriage, you will have to address their clan leader and take care of the wedding arrangements. That is unless you’re playing the realistic version of the game, in which case you will have to find another suitable partner. I advise you to save the game before this conversation, so you can go back in case you mess up. Fail to do so and you’ll be told that the two of you aren’t compatible, ruining your chances of marriage with that person. You’ll have three conversation checks, and you’ll have to pick the right one. Getting someone to marry you is quite similar to recruiting a lord into your faction. You will be told to talk to them in the near future, but you can try the dialogue again and will find new conversation topics regarding the subject.

There will be an option to mention how you’ve noticed that they haven’t taken a husband or wife just yet.


The first thing to do is talk to the person you want to marry. Once you’ve found your soulmate, it’s time to put a ring on it. Well, the game provides you with an Encyclopedia (N), which allows you to sort the kingdoms and look for the ideal candidate. Sorry to disappoint again, but this is one feature that didn’t change from Warband to Bannerlord.Īlrighty then, you’ve decided to get married, good for you! But, who exactly are you going to get married to?

Don’t get me wrong, you can flirt to your heart’s content, but ultimately, you will only marry one person.
